Advice: My boyfriend told me my weight is a problem during sex



So recently my boyfriend tells me that I need to lose weight (we’ve only been dating a month and my weight has remained the same since we met) he said that it’s an obstacle when we have sex and it is frustrating. This was news to me as we have a fairly healthy sex life. 

He said because of my weight we can’t “have sex the way I want to” I asked him what he meant he couldn’t give me a straight answer. Yes I am on the heavier side but I never considered myself to be disgustingly fat. For context I’m about a size 12/14 and 5’6.

 I’ve never had a guy say anything like this to me before and I’m at a loss. He continued to go on to say he couldn’t end up with me if I didn’t lose weight and that it’s an easy fix I need to just not eat. This stung a lot and I’m very hurt and don’t know what to do.

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